![]() The HR manager asked me to stay and said she would transfer me to my dream position at this company and I said no thanks and quit right before a huge event where they needed me. I found my dream job literally across the street with the competition. A lot of important things didn’t get done because he wouldn’t talk to me and it made our department look bad. He would not talk to me and just avoided me which is hard when we share an office. Update: so if anyone reads this! My boss had his discussion with HR and they told him everything I said. But man does it suck and really spiraled me into a depression. I’m trying to find a new job but in the meantime I just have to deal with the harassment. I know he won’t get in trouble which just means that the bullying and harassment is going to get worse. I told her what I had been experiencing for the past 6 months and now he has a meeting with his boss and HR in an hour. ![]() Then HR pulled me into the office to chat unrelated but had no clue yet that I snapped at him. Well I finally hit my breaking point this week and snapped at him. Except he only does it when it’s just the 2 of us around so If I say anything he knows it’s me who reported it and that he would lie and say it never happened. ![]() My boss has been bullying me and making uncomfortable inappropriate comments to me/about me for the past 6 months now. I have no respect for people who behave this way. I'd never seek to embarrass or insult someone.especially publicly. When I've been the boss, I'm fair and treat people well. I'm professional and do my job.most times excelling in a position. I treat people with respect in the workplace. Not the first ually after many times and after I've made it clear that they are crossing a line. for talking to me in an abusive, insulting or on rare cases said some racist shit they thought they could get away with. I will, and have slapped the shit out of someone.or asked them out back. ![]() I'm a pretty stocky guy who isn't afraid of confrontation, and bullies like being bullies to people who they think are too scared to fight back. I should also say that it's rare for me to get bullied or abused at work. I'd like to say I stayed until I found another job before I quit, but that's not usually how it happens.I usually get fed up and quit.but let the company know why. So I've learned to either try and do something about it, or change jobs. When I accept BS at a job I don't sleep well, and I'm in bad mood now and don't enjoy life outside of work because I'm always angry about work and talking about it. The one thing I won't do is ignore it and be miserable or mistreated just for a job. I assume that going over their heads has the potential to backfire, or make things worse.but I figure it's a 50/50 shot if it's a place I like working at. Then I determine is the person just an asshole with horrible people skills or truly mean and abusive.īut even with those considerations, most times I've either confronted the person and asked them WTF their problem is, or gone over their heads past the level that keeps excusing their behavior. Especially when I worked in the bar and restaurant business.įirst, I determine how much I care about the job, whether the pay is fair, and how easy it will be for me to get another like it. Job Vent - a place to vent about your grievances at work.Regional job subreddits, via /r/forhire.We will be lenient, as long as the post is somewhat related to /r/jobs ( The core mission of /r/jobs is for "How to get a Job" or "How to quit a job" ), we will allow it as long as it follows all other rules. Posts primarily consisting of complaints about co-workers, bosses, recruiters or otherwise should "low quality posts" will be removed if flagged. (5) Posts which do not relate to job/career advice are not allowed. All other types of content, including videos, must be submitted as a text post. The title of article submissions must begin with "". Refrain from using vague titles such as "I need help" and similar. (3) Please be specific with your post title. No posts or comments making personal attacks or wishing harm to others or themselves. (2) General Conduct - This is a professional, family friendly sub - Foul Language is not welcome. If you want to advertise, please buy an ad. Posts and/or comments of any "job boards", "job listings", "recruiters", "services", "ads" - regardless of "free" or "paid" are not allowed. No Job Posts or Self Promotion of any kind. Please make sure to set flair for your posts to facilitate categorization.
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